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Midland Unitarian Association Annual General Meeting

When: Saturday 27th March 2010

Where: Unitarian New Meeting Church, Birmingham

Time: 10.30 am - 4.00 pm

Guest Speaker:  Rev. Andrew Pakula, EC Link from the General Assembly of Unitarian & Free Christian Churches

Further details from Sue Woolley e-mail sue.woolley@virgin.net

 

 

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Alternative Worship Training Day at Coventry goes well (13/2/2010)

17 delegates from nine congregations (including Leicester Unitarian Fellowship and Mansfield) attended a training day on Alternative Worship, led by Sue Woolley and Alison Thursfield. After some preliminary words about using ritual in ordinary services, and putting together completely alternative services, the delegates were split up into three groups, and given an occasion each to make up a 15-minute ritual about. The themes were One World Week, Mothering Sunday and the Summer Solstice, and the ingenuity shown by people was amazing. It was clear that the delegates very much enjoyed the group work, and after lunch, we got back together, and each group presented its ritual to the rest. Then our guest speakers, Mel Prideaux and Linda King, who had come all the way from Yorkshire, talked to us about walking a labyrinth. We then de-camped to the Heaviside Hall (probably the largest flat space in any MUA church) to walk the labyrinth itself, which is seven metres square! Most people enjoyed it, but a couple had literal and metaphorical cold feet. Then it was time to brave the vagaries of Coventry's ring road, and go our separate ways.

Delegates in their small groups discussing their rituals

Walking the labyrinth in the Heaviside Hall

 

Shrewsbury Congregation celebrate 90th Birthday of Joyce Griffiths, Organist

On Sunday 3rd January 2010, a joyous occasion took place at Shrewsbury Unitarian Church, when a special service was held to celebrate the 90th birthday of their much loved and highly gifted organist, Mrs. Joyce Griffiths. The service, which had a musical theme, was led by Mr. Sandy Ellis, and the sixty strong congregation came from far and wide. As well as a strong turnout by regular members of the congregation, there were former neighbours of Joyce's, members of the Spiritualist Church which also uses the premises and for whom Joyce also plays the organ, and family members from as far afield as Aberystwyth, Machynlleth and Los Angeles.At the conclusion of the service, Mrs. Joan Hughes, Chair of the Shrewsbury congregation, presented Joyce with a floral bouquet and invited her to unveil a plaque mounted on the organ to mark her fifty years' service as organist. She was then invited to cut a birthday cake decorated with chalices and musical notes, made by Miss Sue Davies, before joining everyone in a celebratory drink. The family members then adjourned to the Lord Hill Hotel for a birthday lunch.

Funeral of Frank and Jean Hytch (3rd December 2009)

The funeral of Frank and Jean Hytch was held at Unitarian New Meeting Church, Birmingham on 3rd December 2009. It was led by Rev. Simon Ramsay, minister at UNM, and included the eulogy below, which was read out by Mr. Sandy Ellis, Treasurer of the MUA. Among the attenders were Rev. Peter Hewis, MUA President, Mrs. Bronwen Taylor, MUA Vice President,  Rev. Ann Latham, representing the Manchester District Association, and Mr. Neville Kenyon, Vice-President of the General Assembly, as well as individual Unitarians from around the country.

Frank and Jean Hytch, 1929 - 2009

We are gathered here today to pay tribute and give thanks for the lives of Frank and Jean Hytch, loyal members of this congregation for more years than most of us remember.

Frank and Jean had been married for nearly sixty years, and were inseparable in life, sharing their love of music and bridge and working closely together in latter years, producing The Unitarian magazine. Both Jean and Frank were in their 81st year. It is perhaps a kind and happy outcome that Jean should follow Frank so quickly into the afterlife. I feel sure that this is what she would have wanted.

Jean was born and grew up in Glamorgan and she undertook teacher training at Derby. she and Frank met at a Christian conference in Swanwick. Jean taught music students at home until quite recently, but ceased attending church several years ago, when she developed agoraphobia. She never left the house in Moseley until after Frank was admitted to hospital, when she followed him shortly afterwards. Her sometimes abrupt manner concealed a kind heart.

Frank was born in Leicester in March, 1929 where his father worked for the Inland Revenue. But this was a career which entailed regular moves to different parts of the country, and Frank’s own career would follow a similar peripatetic pattern. He attended school at Wallington in Surrey, where his precocious talent led to the award of a scholarship to Wadham College, Oxford at the age of 17, mingling with such fellow undergraduates as Tony Benn and Roy Hattersley. Frank graduated in Politics, Philosophy & Economics at the age of 20 and he and Jean were married in 1950. Those were the days of universal National Service and Frank then volunteered for a Short Service Commission in the RAF and during the next seven years served in Germany, Northumberland, and Bridgnorth.

On leaving the RAF, he joined the Civil Service as a graduate trainee in the Ministry of Labour, where his hard work and ability led to rapid promotion. He went on to serve as Manager in Charge at Labour Exchanges in Wolverhampton and Worcester before joining the Industrial Relations Service which in 1974 became the Advisory, Conciliation and Arbitration  Services – ACAS for short. The following year the new enterprise became part of the Department for Business, Enterprise and Regulatory Reform and was organized into several very large districts within the United Kingdom. Frank was appointed to manage the Wales Region and as he was by then living in Moseley, had  to spend a great deal of time traveling. He was then promoted yet again to run the vast Midland District with its headquarters in Birmingham where he rapidly earned the respect of the leaders of both the Employers and the Trade Unions, on one memorable occasion dealing with Unitarians representing each side!

Despite his busy life, Frank also served as a Birmingham magistrate for over 20 years. And typically, he was noted for his approachability and willingness to share his wisdom and experience with newly appointed members of the bench.

Frank joined The Church of the Messiah in Broad Street during the ministry of Hilton Birtles and remained a member when the congregation reverted to its original name of Unitarian New Meeting and moved to the present premises in Ryland Street. He then ran the Ryland Youth Club, started in the new premises, until its closure in 1976. He soon became a member of the Vestry Committee and served as Congregational Secretary for over twenty five years, interrupted only by a two year spell as Chairman. Frank's equable temperament and willingness to see both sides of an argument were always a calming influence in congregational affairs. His unremitting dedication and skill in quietly carrying out the basic tasks essential to the success of the congregation earned him the love and respect of all. For many years, he combined the role of Secretary with management of the church lettings which made such a valuable contribution to its income.

Frank was generous too with his time in contributing to many other areas of the Unitarian Movement. He served on the Executive Committee of the Midland Union – as it then was – for several years and became its President in 1989-91. Both he and Jean were life members of the Association. He was a staunch supporter of the Unitarian Church Music Society, working with David Dawson. David and his wife also have happy memories of meeting Jean and Frank at the Unitarian Family Holiday Conferences held at Great Hucklow and Peter Hewis tells of how Frank and his family volunteered to help him run a London Send a Child to Hucklow week at Great Hucklow.

For 57 years, Frank was also a strong supporter of The National Unitarian Fellowship, serving variously as Secretary, President and Editor of the magazine. For several years in the 1990s he also organized the Annual Conferences of the Unitarian Society for Psychical Studies. Frank held firm views about life after death and at the 1995 Conference, when President of the Society, he gave a major paper on The Supreme Adventure, Crookall’s seminal book on the subject.

He was a Trustee of the Hibbert and Gregson Trusts from 1986 to 2003 and participated in several research projects with them. His colleagues have fond memories of his kind and gentle nature.

He was Life Governor of Manchester College Oxford and regularly attended the Annual meetings of friends and governors.

In latter years, Frank became even better known nationally, after he succeeded Alan Curren as Editor of The Unitarian magazine in 1996. He used his wide knowledge of Unitarian affairs to make every edition both interesting and challenging. He was a self-professed technophobe and relied heavily on Jean’s computing expertise to meet the technical demands of modern publishing, editing his final edition in October 2009.

He was a GA Recognised Lay Preacher and preached tirelessly in churches and chapels throughout the West Midlands for many years where his addresses were deeply appreciated. One hearer speaks of Frank as ‘an interesting and eloquent preacher’ who ‘will be sorely missed, a true voice of reason’.

As well as their shared interest in music, Frank and Jean were keen Bridge players and took part in Bridge tournaments as far afield as Anglesey. Their younger son Michael died in a tragic motor cycle accident many years ago, but they are survived by their daughter Tessa, their son Christopher, their grandchildren Max, Leo and Giles and Frank's brother David and his family. We offer them our sympathies in their loss.

Frank Hytch was a man loved and respected by all who knew him. he left the world a better place than he found it. There can be no better testament to any man. Like Saul and Jonathan in the Book of Samuel, Frank and Jean were 'lovely and pleasant in their lives, and in their death they were not divided.'

SANDY ELLIS

MUA Annual Lunch an enjoyable occasion (31/10/2009)

39 people from 13 MUA congregations met at Kingswood Meeting House for our Annual Lunch. This was a change of venue from our usual, and also a change of caterers. Jill Bowie and her staff did us proud - we had a choice of four main meals, three accompaniments and two sweets, all of which were delicious. Before the meal, Rev. Bob Wightman, President of the General Assembly of Unitarian & Free Christian Churches, was introduced as our guest speaker by MUA President, Rev. Peter Hewis. Rev. Bob, as he is known throughout the denomination, gave an inspirational talk about how it is we, the individual congregations and members, who must have the enthusiasm and dedication to ensure the survival and growth of our denomination. The vote of thanks was given by Immediate Past President, Mrs. Alison Thursfield.

We then adjourned to the hall for lunch, with Rev. Peter Hewis offering the grace. After the meal, the loyal toast was proposed by Mr. John Chandler, a member of the MUA Executive Committee and of Kingswood. The Unitarian toast was proposed by Mrs. Sue Woolley, MUA District Facilitator, who shared some local examples of Unitarian devotion to the cause of religious and civil liberty. After Rev. Ant Howe had proposed a vote of thanks to the caterers, and presented them with a box of chocolates, it was time for coffee and chat, and then everyone dispersed, having enjoyed a day of fellowship and good conversation.

Training Day on Prayer & Meditation a great success (10/10/2009)

13 of us from 7 congregations (including Leicester Unitarian Fellowship, whom we were pleased to welcome) gathered at Kingswood to learn about prayer and meditation from Rev. Ant Howe (Kingswood) and Rev. Sarah Tinker (Kensington). After some brief opening devotions, Sarah set the ball rolling by asking us to split into pairs and discuss what prayer meant to us. We then fed back to the group, and the variety of answers was fascinating. Then we talked about our personal spiritual practices (if any) which included variations on prayer, meditation and simply appreciating the wider world (for example nature).

The second session was on meditation, and was led by Sarah. She explained that we need to be clear when using the word in a Unitarian service, as it means different things to different people. She then sent us outside to do a brief walking meditation, just saying 'thank you'.  We learned that meditation is all about awareness, of taking a step backwards from being the thinker, to observing yourself. There were also many tips on how to make meditation a meaningful part of a Unitarian service. The session was rounded off with a guided visualisation.

After lunch, Ant led us in a session on prayer. Again in small groups, we were asked to consider what kinds of prayer do (and do not) work for us in a church/chapel setting. The importance of appropriate language, the use of pauses, the need for focus, and the need to be heartfelt were all touched on.

Finally, it was over to us! Ant and Sarah asked us to write a prayer or meditation either in response to a disaster that had happened in the last couple of weeks, or about something wonderful that had happened. The braver among us shared the results with the group. They also asked one of us to produce some closing devotions for the day, which we then did.

All in all, it was an inspirational and interesting day. I think everybody learned a lot, and really appreciated the work that Ant and Sarah had put in.

Miss Janice Ashley: 1932 - 2009

The Midland Unitarian Association is very sad to announce the death of a dear friend to many of us, Miss Janice Ashley. She died peacefully in her sleep following a battle with cancer on 20th July.

Janice was an active member of The Great Meeting House Unitarian Church, Coventry all her life, being Church Secretary and Lettings Secretary - posts she took over from her parents. She was also a Church Trustee.

In the 1960s and 1970s she was one of an active group of young Unitarians in the Midlands who organised annual activities and competitions for the Midland Sunday Schools Association.

Under the guidance of the late Philip Spencer (of West Bromwich) she studied to become a lay preacher, and led worship regularly around the District until the end of 2008. She was President of the Midland Union of Unitarian & Free Christian Churches from 1983 - 1985, and its Secretary from 1985 - 1987. She was also a leading member of the Birmingham District Women's League, being its President from 2007 until her death. She had also represented the District on Central Committee. She was able to attend the District AGM in March 2009.

She was also involved with the Unitarian Lay Preachers Association (which later merged with the Unitarian Association of Lay Leaders), being its President from 1992 - 1993, and was its conference organiser for many years.

She was also very much involved with Moose International, the local branch of which meets at The Great Meeting House in Coventry.

Janice was a personal friend and we spent many happy times visiting various areas for days out and short holidays.

She will be greatly missed by her Congregation and many friends throughout the Unitarian movement. Our sympathies are sent to her brother Anthony and sister-in-law Sheila, and to her cousin Jean Dyer.

Ann Hughes

MUA Publicity Workshop

A highly successful Publicity Workshop was held at Birmingham New Meeting on Saturday 20th June. It was well supported, with 24 members attending from 13 MUA Congregations. The Workshop was led by Sue Woolley, the MUA District Facilitator, using a laptop and projector to give a very professional presentation using PowerPoint slides. Sue started the proceedings by inviting everyone to respond when meeting a stranger in a lift who spots the chalice badge and asks ‘What are Unitarians?” The day was then divided into four sessions. The two morning sessions were led by Sue: 1) Publicity using people and buildings and 2) Producing a Newsletter. The first dealt with how to help visitors find your chapel, and then ensuring that it is attractive and welcoming. The second emphasised the importance of each congregation having a Newsletter both for the members and for informing visitors. Aspects of content, design, production and distribution were then discussed.  The first afternoon Session 3) External Publicity was led by Guest Speaker Jim Corrigall who as well as being a member of the GA Executive Committee, is also a professional journalist. He explained how to write News Articles and Press Releases, the effective use of photographs and how to give a radio interview. The final session 4) Building & maintaining a website was again led by Sue who explained how to design and construct an effective congregational website designed to attract new members, and emphasized the importance of regularly updating it to maintain its impact.

Singing our Faith - the Ministers' Meeting Hymn Sing, 13th June 2009

Over 30 Midlands Unitarians gathered at Kingswood Meeting House on a warm and sunny Saturday afternoon, to join with Rev. Ant Howe and the talented choir and organist from Kingswood, to learn some hymns from the new purple hymn book, Sing Your Faith. The gathering had been organised by the Warwickshire & Neighbouring Counties Monthly Meeting of Protestant Dissenting Ministers, known to its friends as the Ministers' Meeting, to encourage Midlands congregations to give the new hymn book a try.

Ant and his helpers took us through nine new hymns, some of which were quite easy to sing, some of which were a bit trickier. We all enjoyed the words of the new hymns, by talented contemporary Unitarians, and did our best to sing our faith loud and clear.

Then after a short break for tea and delicious cakes provided by the Kingswood congregation, Ant led us in a short service, using three of the hymns we had learned. All in all, it was an inspirational afternoon, and we left full of plans to use the new hymn book as soon as possible.

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A Happy Celebration of Fifty years of service

A large crowd of friends from eight different MUA Congregations gathered at Warwick on Sunday 17th May to join in a Service of Celebration marking fifty years of service to Warwick Unitarians by Malcolm Sadler. The service was conducted by the Rev. Ant. Howe and accompanied on the piano by Malcolm. The Chapel was a different place when Malcolm first joined it in 1959, said Ant, with traditional pews, inadequate heating, a crumbling fabric and a dwindling congregation. Ant then invited Malcolm to describe some of the musical events which followed his arrival. Malcolm explained that he had been the organist at Waverley Road Church when he was invited to move to Warwick. In those days, the old pipe organ stood at the south end of the chapel and playing it created a loud howling sound from the blower motor situated in a corrugated iron shed in the garden outside. It had to be switched off after each hymn to avoid complaints from the neighbours! The organ gave up the ghost in mid-hymn during the second time that he played it, necessitating the use of a piano to complete the hymn! It was replaced with a smaller portable instrument which is still present in the upper room. In the ensuing years, he was able to recruit a series of musical ensembles to enliven the services and when it became impossible to recruit a minister, he accepted appointment as Lay Leader himself. There followed a long struggle stretching over many years to complete a massive programme of renovation which involved replacing the ceiling, removing the pews, replacing the floor, redecorating the chapel in bright colours, creating a new kitchen and reclaiming the now beautiful garden behind the chapel. Three flats were created in the adjacent building to form the basis of future income. Ant said that without Malcolm’s determined leadership over so many years, the congregation was unlikely to have survived. He pointed out, that, not content with these Herculean efforts on behalf of the congregation, Malcolm had made a significant contribution at both District and National level, being a Past President of the Midland District, Secretary of the District Ministers’ Meeting,  and Secretary for many years of the Unitarian Association of Lay Leaders. He then read letters of congratulation from the President of the General Assembly, the President of the Midland Unitarian Association and from the Rev. John Clifford, a former Minister of the congregation and handed over a thick batch of additional congratulatory cards. At the conclusion of the service, the congregation offered drinks and refreshments whilst those present swapped memories and reminiscences.

SANDY ELLIS

Warwickshire & Neighbouring Counties Monthly Meeting of Protestant Dissenting Ministers Asparagus Lunch, Oat St Chapel, Evesham, 13th May 2009

Friends from most of the MUA congregations met at Oat St Chapel, Evesham for the Annual Asparagus Lunch. In spite of the gloomy weather, it was a joyful occasion. The service beforehand was led by the President of the General Assembly of Unitarian & Free Christian Churches, Rev. Bob Wightman, who spoke inspiringly about the importance of ministry of all kinds.

The lunch was up to the usual high standard, and had been splendidly organised by Dr. Peter Forder, Chairman at Evesham. One innovation for this year was the provision of e-tickets, with our names and menu choices on them, which made the waiting staff's job a lot easier.

The traditional toast to civil and religious liberty was proposed by Rev. Bob, and he was thanked by Rev. Keith Hill. Then Immediate Past President of the MUA,  Mrs. Alison Thursfield,  thanked the Ministers' Meeting for holding this Annual Lunch, and for their continuing witness through the centuries. Rev. Ant Howe thanked Oat St Chapel for their hospitality, and Dr. Peter Forder thanked the catering staff for the delicious meal.

Creating a Vibrant Spiritual Community through Small Group Ministry Training Course, Kingswood, 2nd May 2009

19 delegates from seven MUA congregations attended a whole-day training course about Small Group Ministry, led by the inspirational Rev. Jim Robinson of Hampstead.

After a spiritual opening session, to remind us that we are a spiritual community, not just a social club, we all "checked in", by sharing the wide variety of small groups that exist in our congregations. These included discussion, Friday Light, charity work, choir, rambling, retreats, Inquirer, small group worship, district work, and committees.  We then shared what we appreciated about these small groups, and what the possible barriers were to them fulfilling their potentials.

Jim then took us through the basic principles of Small Group Ministry and Engagement Groups, including their intention, structure, engagement sharing principles, and facilitation. We learned that the reason for small groups is to deepen the spiritual life of the participants; to create community between them; to enable them to live in 'right relationship' with the rest of the world; and to deepen their connections with their church or chapel.

After lunch, we were taught how to listen to our fellow human beings, avoiding stereotyping ourselves and others. We were then invited to put this into practice, by splitting up into pairs, which was both fun and instructive. Then Jim took us through some of the practical issues of running an Engagement Group, about the meeting space; time questions; leadership; focus or purpose; the name of the group; the covenant between members; the structure of sessions; and the issues of problem behaviour and confidentiality.

The day was rounded off by a "check-out" session to balance the "check-in" in the morning, and a short spiritual closing.

We are all very keen to learn more about facilitation skills, and are hoping that Jim Robinson can be persuaded to run a course about this in the Autumn.

Delegates in their small groups discussing their rituals Walking the labyrinth in the Heaviside Hall

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GA meetings 2010

When: 8 - 11 April 2010

Where: Nottingham University (Jubilee Campus)

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General Assembly appoints new Chief Officer

The Executive Committee is pleased to announce that Derek McAuley has been appointed to the post of Chief Officer of the General Assembly of Unitarian and Free Christian Churches. It is anticipated that he will take up the position in December 2009.

Derek, aged 50, has been active within the Unitarian movement at congregational, district and national levels and has been a member of the Executive Committee since April 2008 and General Assembly Treasurer since April 2009. He served as a member of the Hibbert Trust collaborative inquiry into the future of liberal religion: “Shaping the Future”.

He has been a senior manager in the National Health Service for 17 years in Merseyside and Manchester and also brings long experience as a voluntary sector trustee and chair.

 

Report of General Assembly meetings, held at Chester, 15th to 18th April 2009

No less than 20 MUA people attended the recent GA meetings, including two ministers, three retired ministers and the District Facilitator. Nine of our 18 congregations were represented. There was the usual plethora of meetings and workshops to choose from, quite apart from the business meetings, and the big set-piece events of the Opening Celebrations and Anniversary Service. The Growth session on the Friday was rather better organised than last year, with delegates from two adjacent districts getting together to swap ideas and share good practice. It will all appear on the GA website in due course.

But the highlight of the meetings for me was the presentation by Rev. Jane Dwinnell of the UUA, who delivered an inspiring talk about how to manage and grow small congregations. I was one of the fortunate few who managed to pick up her book Big Ideas for Small Congregations before the bookstall sold out, and it is crammed with good ideas. Watch this space ... SW

Changes at Essex Hall and Unitarian College Manchester (March 2009)

General Assembly Chief Executive Rev. Steve Dick has resigned from his post with immediate effect.

Rev. Alex Bradley, currently minister at Knutsford and Styal, is to succeed Rev. Dr. Ann Peart as Principal of Unitarian College Manchester, with effect from August 2009. He will be working on a 0.7 basis, and keeping on his ministry at Styal.

New General Assembly Executive Committee announced (17/12/2008)

The following persons have been elected to the GA Executive Committee:

Joan Cook - St Mark's Unitarian Church, Edinburgh

Jim Corrigall - Golders Green Unitarians

Lis Dyson-Jones - South East Wales Unitarian Society

Dot Hewerdine - Chorley Unitarian Chapel

Andrew Pakula - Newington Green Unitarian Church

Rev. Dr. Ann Peart - Cross Street Chapel, Manchester

Sir Peter Soulsby - Great Meeting Unitarian Chapel, Leicester

Rev. Dr. David Usher - London District & South Eastern Provincial Assembly of Unitarian & Free Christian Churches